Apparently Gen Z Men Are Leaning Conservative While Gen Z Women Are More Liberal, And It’s Making Dating Really Hard (2024)

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If you're feeling like dating has really been the bad place right now, you're not alone — and research is here to back you up.New research suggests that a global ideological divide is forming, where young women are more progressive and young men are more conservative. The research may help to explain the debate over whether Gen Z is more progressive or conservative, as studies often conflictingly report Gen Z is left leaning on some issues, but conservative on others. According to Alice Evans, one of the leading researchers on the topic from Stanford University, Gen Z is diverging into two generations: progressive Gen Z women and conservative Gen Z men. Historically, young people have mostly been spread roughly equal between liberal and conservative views, but now, research is pointing to a departure from this trend. In the US, Gallup data shows that women aged 18 to 30 are 30 percentage points more liberal than their male counterparts, with the gap opening up in the past six years. And according to the Korea Times, the country's gender split is leading to fewer Koreans dating — a Gallup survey revealed that over 50% of unmarried Korean men and women in their 20s and 30s find each other difficult to relate to. South Korea has the lowest birth rate of any country in the world, dropping to .78 births per woman in 2022. The Financial Times added that the divergence is self-sustaining and now extended beyond gender-related issues. John Burn-Murdoch wrote, “In the US, UK and Germany, young women now take far more liberal positions on immigration and racial justice than young men, while older age groups remain evenly matched.” This means tens of millions of young people who share cities, homes, dating scenes, workplaces, and communities are struggling to agree and coexist. Where one group seemingly wants a more equitable future, another wants to strip that possibility away. While the effects of the divide on dating and relationships are still being unearthed, and the discussion and research is limited to a heteronormative gender binary, many people on Twitter felt the research helped explain their own experiences: As writer Sophia Benoit (@1followernodad) wrote in a viral tweet, "Not to be too trite (or heteronormative) but I really really think this is the HUGE reason dating is so rough right now. The pool of available men whose politics don’t suck is actually a shallow puddle." User @theaaronbinder recalled seeing this play out with his own friends and colleagues: User@JuliusGoat added, "Women want to be treated as if they are human beings and men are by and large psychologically incapable of dealing with that." One creator on TikTok even said that her date told her that men commonly put liberal on their dating profiles even if they’re conservative (or even moderate) because they weren’t getting any dates. Others in the comments shared similar experiences: And many women shared that conflicting politics would absolutely be a deal-breaker on a date: One person even felt the divide within their own home, despite historically agreeing on social and political issues with their husband: Many people agreed that it made sense an ideological gap was forming with men as increasingly conservative, because "Conservatism is about maintaining tradition and status quo," aka patriarchal power structures like marriage, unequal division of household labor, paid work, and sexual control. Personally, I'm both fascinated and concerned at these findings, especially at the fact that the divide is forming not just in the US, but globally. But let me know what you think — have you experienced or "felt" this ideological divide in your own life, whether it be dating, work, or at home?

    "For one group, politics is reactionary. For the other, it's their healthcare and human rights."

    by Alana ValkoBuzzFeed Staff

    If you're feeling like dating has really been the bad place right now, you're not alone — and research is here to back you up.New research suggests that a global ideological divide is forming, where young women are more progressive and young men are more conservative.

    NEW: an ideological divide is emerging between young men and women in many countries around the world.

    I think this one of the most important social trends unfolding today, and provides the answer to several puzzles. pic.twitter.com/kG4qQReqfT

    — John Burn-Murdoch (@jburnmurdoch) January 26, 2024

    Twitter: @jburnmurdoch

    The research may help to explain the debate over whether Gen Z is more progressive or conservative, as studies often conflictingly report Gen Z is left leaning on some issues, but conservative on others.

    Apparently Gen Z Men Are Leaning Conservative While Gen Z Women Are More Liberal, And It’s Making Dating Really Hard (2)

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    According to Alice Evans, one of the leading researchers on the topic from Stanford University, Gen Z is diverging into two generations: progressive Gen Z women and conservative Gen Z men.

    Matt Cardy / Getty Images

    On her Substack, Alice wrote that in economically developed and culturally liberal societies, "Social media filter bubbles and cultural entrepreneurs have created echo chambers of righteous resentment, channeling frustrations and zero sum mentalities against [women] and foreigners." Think Andrew Tate. "Meanwhile, many young women are immersed in filter bubbles that emphasize inequalities."

    Historically, young people have mostly been spread roughly equal between liberal and conservative views, but now, research is pointing to a departure from this trend. In the US, Gallup data shows that women aged 18 to 30 are 30 percentage points more liberal than their male counterparts, with the gap opening up in the past six years.

    NEW: an ideological divide is emerging between young men and women in many countries around the world.

    I think this one of the most important social trends unfolding today, and provides the answer to several puzzles. pic.twitter.com/kG4qQReqfT

    — John Burn-Murdoch (@jburnmurdoch) January 26, 2024

    John Burn-Murdoch / Financial Times / Via ft.com

    Data also shows a 30-point gap between progressive young women and conservative young men in Germany, and 25-point gap in the UK. And in Poland, almost 50% of 18 to 21-year-old men voted for the right-wing Confederation party, compared to just a sixth of young women.

    In South Korea, the gender divide is even starker with a 40-point gap.In the country's 2022 presidential election, young men and women voted almostequally in opposite directions— where young men heavily voted for the right-wing People Power party (65.1%) and young women backed the liberal Democratic party (66.8%).

    Chart courtesy of The Financial Times.

    And according to the Korea Times, the country's gender split is leading to fewer Koreans dating — a Gallup survey revealed that over 50% of unmarried Korean men and women in their 20s and 30s find each other difficult to relate to. South Korea has the lowest birth rate of any country in the world, dropping to .78 births per woman in 2022.

    Apparently Gen Z Men Are Leaning Conservative While Gen Z Women Are More Liberal, And It’s Making Dating Really Hard (4)

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    While South Korea illustrates one of the most extreme situations across the world, the Financial Times noted that "it serves as a warning to other countries of what can happen when young men and women part ways."

    The Financial Times added that the divergence is self-sustaining and now extended beyond gender-related issues. John Burn-Murdoch wrote, “In the US, UK and Germany, young women now take far more liberal positions on immigration and racial justice than young men, while older age groups remain evenly matched.”

    Burn-Murdoch argued that the gap is only growing, noting that young people's early political experiences are hard to shake off. He added that social media is only exacerbating the divide between young women and men who increasingly inhabit separate spaces and cultures online.

    This means tens of millions of young people who share cities, homes, dating scenes, workplaces, and communities are struggling to agree and coexist. Where one group seemingly wants a more equitable future, another wants to strip that possibility away.

    Apparently Gen Z Men Are Leaning Conservative While Gen Z Women Are More Liberal, And It’s Making Dating Really Hard (5)

    Arina Kumysheva / Getty Images

    While the effects of the divide on dating and relationships are still being unearthed, and the discussion and research is limited to a heteronormative gender binary, many people on Twitter felt the research helped explain their own experiences:

    As writer Sophia Benoit (@1followernodad) wrote in a viral tweet, "Not to be too trite (or heteronormative) but I really really think this is the HUGE reason dating is so rough right now. The pool of available men whose politics don’t suck is actually a shallow puddle."

    Apparently Gen Z Men Are Leaning Conservative While Gen Z Women Are More Liberal, And It’s Making Dating Really Hard (6)

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    User @theaaronbinder recalled seeing this play out with his own friends and colleagues:

    I've seen this in younger friends and colleagues.

    Many young men wondering why women won't date them.

    Many young women simply not dating because of the giant disconnect.

    For one group, politics is reactionary. For the other, it's their healthcare and human rights.

    — Aaron Binder (@theaaronbinder) January 26, 2024

    Twitter: @theaaronbinder

    May I just emphasize: "For one group, politics is reactionary. For the other, it's their healthcare and human rights.”

    User@JuliusGoat added, "Women want to be treated as if they are human beings and men are by and large psychologically incapable of dealing with that."

    Women want to be treated as if they are human beings and men are by and large psychologically incapable of dealing with that. https://t.co/oHKgzazOxP

    — A.R. Moxon (juliusgoat.bsky.social) (@JuliusGoat) January 27, 2024

    John Burn-Murdoch / Financial Times / Via ft.com

    One creator on TikTok even said that her date told her that men commonly put liberal on their dating profiles even if they’re conservative (or even moderate) because they weren’t getting any dates. Others in the comments shared similar experiences:

    Apparently Gen Z Men Are Leaning Conservative While Gen Z Women Are More Liberal, And It’s Making Dating Really Hard (7)

    @beverlyjhart / Via tiktok.com

    And many women shared that conflicting politics would absolutely be a deal-breaker on a date:

    Apparently Gen Z Men Are Leaning Conservative While Gen Z Women Are More Liberal, And It’s Making Dating Really Hard (8)

    @beverlyjhart / Via tiktok.com

    One person even felt the divide within their own home, despite historically agreeing on social and political issues with their husband:

    I’m seeing it my own home. I do think it’s algorithm driven. Hub & I used to agree on all soc & pol issues. We also consumed same media. Now we don’t. I am same lib, if not more so. He isn’t conservative, but it’s odd not agreeing on some things. Can I take his internet away? 🤔 pic.twitter.com/FGU4SbthRD

    — Bengal Port ⟭⟬ Lori ⟬⟭ (@bengalport) January 30, 2024

    Twitter: @bengalport

    Many people agreed that it made sense an ideological gap was forming with men as increasingly conservative, because "Conservatism is about maintaining tradition and status quo," aka patriarchal power structures like marriage, unequal division of household labor, paid work, and sexual control.

    Of course men are more conservative (as a trend) - conservatism is about maintaining tradition and status quo. Maintaining (patriarchal) power structures. They would like to go back to when they had all the power please.

    — Eve X 🍎 (@TheEveX) February 2, 2024

    Twitter: @TheEveX

    Personally, I'm both fascinated and concerned at these findings, especially at the fact that the divide is forming not just in the US, but globally. But let me know what you think — have you experienced or "felt" this ideological divide in your own life, whether it be dating, work, or at home?

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